November 9

Content Warning: This section of the guide contains discussion of physical abuse, emotional abuse, mental illness, graphic violence, and sexual content.

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

1. How does Hoover’s use of alternating perspectives between Fallon and Ben shape your understanding of their relationship? Have you read other novels that employ this narrative technique, such as Rainbow Rowell's Eleanor & Park? How does this novel compare?

2. What was your initial reaction to Ben and Fallon’s arrangement to meet only once a year? Did your feelings about this premise change as the story progressed?

3. In what ways does the novel challenge or reinforce your beliefs about fate, timing, and second chances?

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. How has your own experience with physical or emotional scars influenced your perception of Fallon’s journey toward self-acceptance?

2. The novel explores how past trauma shapes future relationships. How do you think our past experiences influence our ability to trust and connect with others?

3. Consider Ben and Fallon’s initial meeting. When has a seemingly chance encounter significantly impacted the direction of your life?